Ancient
Answers for Modern Problems:
The Toltec Tradition–Answers
For Today From an Ancient Way
by Dr. Susan Gregg, Author of Mastering
The Toltec Way (Red Wheel, Dec. 2003)
If
any ancient wisdom held ‘the answer’ we would already have ‘the
solution’ to our problems. As Basho so eloquently said, “Don't seek to
follow the footsteps of the men of old, seek what they sought instead.” The Toltec tradition is
incredibly rich in tools that encourage you to develop a profound
connection to your inherent wisdom, power, goodness, and divinity. As you
transform your life they assist you in finding your answers within
yourself. These tools do require effort as well as discipline and
dedication but I can guarantee you that if you use them magic will occur,
your life will be transformed, and nothing will ever be the same.
The
Toltecs were a civilization that lived in Southern Mexico around 900 AD.
They were a rather violent race that brought warfare to Mesoamerica. After
they conquered the city of Teotihuacan a secret society developed that was
dedicated to preserving the knowledge of the ancient ones. The ancient
ones were a race of people who were teachers of spirituality, science, and
the arts. The members of this secret society became known as “men and
women of knowledge.” They embraced the ideals, spiritual concepts, and
peaceful ways of the ancient ones.
The
ancient ones understood the illusionary nature of reality and used the
universal laws of nature to create a life based on unconditional love and
self-discovery. They considered all of life to be part of the great
mystery and knew there was no way to separate the secular from the sacred
or science from spirit. To a “normal” person, they appeared to be
magicians or wizards; they could perform great feats, heal the sick,
create whatever they wanted, and transform matter. In order to accomplish
these feats a person had to achieve personal freedom; they had to develop
the ability to consciously create what they wanted when they wanted.
After
the conquest by the Spaniards this knowledge became a well-guarded secret
passed down from master to apprentice through various lineages. Each
lineage took on its own flavor and personality although the basic
knowledge remained the same. In the early 1980’s I moved to San Diego
and met Sister Sarita and her son Don Miguel Ruiz, author of The
Four Agreements. Sister Sarita had just started sharing the
wisdom of her forefathers openly and I was privileged to be among her
son’s first students. I was their apprentice for many years until one
day Don Miguel told me he was done teaching me and to go and teach in my
own way. Now there are numerous books and many people teaching about this
tradition.
The
Toltec tradition is a philosophy or way of life. This philosophy is based
on two key concepts. The first is taking responsibility for ones
experience in life. The second is realizing that we don’t really see
life at all; what we actually see is our filter system, which is composed
of our beliefs, expectations, agreements, and assumptions.
The
Toltec viewed the universe as a complex energy system. Everything is
composed of energy; all energy has consciousness, it is neither good or
bad nor positive or negative. Energy just is. Life is as it is. Events in
our lives are neutral; they are as they are, neither good or bad, positive
or negative. At first I had a very hard time accepting these concepts but
as I learned to embrace and apply them to my life the results were
amazing.
Personal
freedom is a by-product of embracing these concepts and connecting with
our divinity. All of my life I had a deep desire to be free, but most of
the time I felt like a leaf being tossed about aimlessly by the wind. When
I first began my studies I defined personal freedom as having a good job,
enough money to pay my bills, a nice place to live, and being in an
intimate relationship. Over the years my definition has changed
drastically. My current definition is having the ability to act rather
than react to the events in my life and to consciously make my choices
based on love instead of fear. When people begin studying with me I
suggest they take the time to write their own definition of personal
freedom and to revisit their definition frequently, allowing it to evolve
as they do.
As
I explored the Toltec tradition it became very evident how important my
definitions of words and concepts were. I saw clearly how changing my
definitions changed my experience of life. As my definitions became more
expansive it became easier to make my choices consciously, based upon
love. My ability to act rather than react grew and making choices based on
fear became less frequent.
When
I reviewed my definition of responsibility I realized it was contaminated
with the idea of being at fault. Whenever a ‘negative’ event happened
in my life I would feel angry. Over time I realized that responsibility
was simply the ability to respond to an event in life, being at fault
implies I did something wrong. It is impossible to do something wrong once
you embrace the concept that all events are emotionally neutral.
The
idea that everything in life is emotionally neutral ran contrary to
everything I had been taught about life. How could the world function
without the concept of right and wrong, good and evil? Did that make it
all right for murders to kill? Did that excuse drunk drivers who maim
themselves and others in our roads? Are drive-by shootings okay? Was it
okay for my best friend to lie to me or my lover to cheat on me? How would
I make my decisions if they weren’t based on judgments?
It
was so freeing to realize that all of my emotions were based on what I
told myself about the event not the event. Changing my filter system
literally changed my experience of all the events in my life including my
childhood – even that took on a new meaning. The first step in clearing
out your filter system is simply realizing it exists and then being
willing to change it.
Our
emotions are really signposts that lead us in the direction of our filter
system. When we realize our emotions are our own creation we can use them
to set ourselves free of our limiting beliefs. We can use the events in
our life to illuminate our filter system. Instead of focusing our
attention on our emotions and trying to change the events in our life we
can change the way we think. Our spirit is limitless while our mind feels
safer within the familiar limits of our filter system. Once we fully
embrace that which our mind wants to judge we can then set ourselves free.
It
is important to acknowledge our emotions and to do whatever is necessary
to release them. I find writing a letter fully expressing all of my
emotions that is for my eyes alone really helps. If I am really upset I
rant, rave, scream and yell until I feel done. At times I have written
hate mail to God or to the universe, myself and whoever else seemed
appropriate. Then I burn them or put a stamp on them and mail the letter
to God. I never give it to the person.
Once
I am free of my emotions I can begin to seriously look at my beliefs, any
agreements I have with the universe, or myself, explore any assumptions
I’ve made and change them. Writing is a very powerful tool. The Toltec
talk about quieting the ‘mitote’ of the mind, all the voices of the
market place that clamor for our attention. Achieving personal freedom is
really a matter of retraining your mind so it is your servant rather than
your taskmaster.
The
process of retraining our minds can be a daunting one. It is easy to
declare war and end up endlessly fighting with your mind. Breaking free of
your mind is important but learn how to do it lovingly. There are several
simple tools to help you accomplish that. One is focusing your attention
on your breathing. As you move through your day take a few moments every
hour to simply feel your breath as it moves in and out of your body.
Really notice where you feel your breath in your body; perhaps it is in
your nose or your chest, your throat or your stomach. Once you are aware
of your breath consciously allow yourself to connect with your spirit,
breath in love and out love. With practice it will make a big difference
in your life. Your thoughts may call you back but as soon as they do
merely refocus your attention on your breathing.
Another
wonderful exercise is deceptively simple; merely focus your attention on
your five physical senses for a few minutes several times a week. Start by
sitting quietly, with your eyes closed, and focus all of your attention on
your hearing. Notice all the different sounds your mind usually filters
out. Then focus on your sense of smell, your sense of taste, and your
sense of touch. Take time to focus on all the subtle sensations we are
normally unaware of when we are busy thinking; feel your clothes, the air,
and taste your breath. Next barely open your eyes and look around at your
environment, notice the shadows, the colors, and the forms of everything
around you. Go through each of your senses five times. Then just go about
your day. Give yourself a gift, review your definitions, observe your
filter system, change your beliefs, lovingly retrain you mind, and set
yourself free. Then let the magic begin!
Reprinted with permission from Susan Gregg and Red Wheel/Weiser,
publishers of Mastering the Toltec Way (Red Wheel/Weiser LLC,
$24.95).
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Susan
Gregg is a clinical hypnotherapist with a private practice in Hawaii.
She leads seminars, retreats, and conferences throughout the United
States. Gregg’s most recent book, Mastering
the Toltec Way: A Daily Guide to Happiness, Freedom and Joy will
be published by Red Wheel in Dec. 2003.