Manifesting:
Create Your Own Reality
by Nisandeh Neta (based
on text by Richard Mark-Coates)
I've experimented with
conscious manifesting techniques for 13 years now.
For 5 years I have taught others the tools that I myself have learned in a
course called 'Manifesting Results'. Some people come to the course with a preconception that I'm going to
teach them how to manifest. The bad news is that I'm not going to do that.
The good news is that you already DO manifest everything in your life. You always have.
Since we all already create our own realities, what we do in the course is
slow down the creative process and learn how this is done, in order to understand the principals behind and in so doing adjust things and create
something different.
We create our reality
from our Thoughts, Feelings, Choices and Beliefs. Lets explore each of these:
THOUGHTS
Your unconscious mind works in the same manner as a refrigerator.
A refrigerator cannot tell the truth from a lie, has no sense of humor,
always works in present time, always accepts what comes in and simply
agrees and says, "YES".
Throughout your life your
fridge has been faithfully storing information.
Whenever any of your
senses picked up a message that you are a good person or a loveable
person, your fridge opened its door, said, "YES" and stored it
away.
Of course, any time that
you picked up that you were a bad person, unworthy or unlovable, your
fridge just says, "YES" and stores it away.
You therefore have, a lot
of stored data, and your self-image as well as your self-esteem are based
on this information.
Studies show that 80% of
all the input we receive as kids is negative ("don't do this",
"that is bad").
Remembering that a child is like a sponge and he or she receives and
believes anything that is said to him or her, there's little wonder why we
end up in a society of people who's belief systems are made up of "I
am not good enough", "I don't deserve", "I'll fuck it
up", etc...
So, what to do? How about balancing some of the negative information, with something
positive? How about utilizing positive affirmations? I know that for many, affirmations work, whilst others just get
bored with
them. There is a way however, to use them with powerful results, as long as we
employ the power of our feelings.
But before jumping to our
feelings, we need to remember a few basics:
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Repeat the thought
over and over again.
You have spent years filling up your fridge with garbage. Do you
really expect that a few days of positive affirmations would balance
it out?
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Use present tense.
"I will earn a million next year" doesn't work.
Tomorrow never comes.
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Use positive terms.
"I quit overeating" puts the weight on the overeating.
Make it instead: "I eat only what my body needs"
FEELINGS
It has been said:
"Thoughts create and feelings bring alive." It is as if your thoughts are the plan on
paper and your feelings bring it
into 3-dimensional reality. If you really want something in your life, let your excitement be there.
Tell the world. You deserve it.
Fear is the same energy
as excitement. If you lean away from something, you get fear. If you lean towards it, you get excitement.
If you stand in front of
your mirror every morning whispering shyly to yourself "I am
beautiful, loveable, successful human being" it might take forever
until you believe it. Instead, sing it loudly to yourself or shout it while driving the car
(making sure that your windows are closed).
CHOICES OR DECISIONS
Many people don't
manifest what they want, because they are not willing to choose. They are
so scared to make a mistake that they never move. "What should I be - a doctor or a lawyer?"
"Shall I marry him/her or shall I not?" Sound familiar?
The universe responds to
your moves. When you make a choice and move, the universe either responds in
"BRAVO" or in "OOPS, TRY AGAIN". But if you don't make a move, you'll never know.
Life is pretty much like
driving a car. When you're driving you make decisions all the time, you get
feedback all
the time and you make new decisions based on that feedback. You go round a curve too
fast, the tires scream, oh boy, too fast, slow
down... As you drive to work in the morning, you have taken hundreds of risks and
made hundreds of decisions, without thinking too much about it.
This is how powerful the
gift of feedback is. We make decisions and then get the response.
An interesting fact about
feedback is that when we receive it from others we don't like it. We feel criticized.
Life is an adventure. If we had the map already written and memorized, what would be the point
of taking the journey?
BELIEFS
Your beliefs determine
your reality in much the same way as your thoughts do. However, their power is
bigger as their source comes from the past and is
well hidden in this fridge we call the unconscious mind. When I began to really look at my beliefs, some of them were: "men
are stupid", "I have to work hard for my money", "I'm
lazy" and "I can't fly". And, of course, the one that kept
all the others in place is: "I believe that my beliefs are difficult
to change".
If I could just change
this last one, then I could change the others quite easily. BUT. There is safety in
these beliefs. They are familiar. Am I prepared to lose that safety?
Some of these beliefs
are, I think, useful. Until I'm sure I can fly, I should avoid jumping off
tall buildings. I guess that's useful, but it is also worth examining once in a while.
Anyway, beliefs are
important to us. We spend a lot of energy proving them true. Whenever I got
overworked and stressed I would turn on the TV, zapping for
hours, thus confirming, "I'm lazy". Whenever a man became too close and offered his friendship, I always found
something wrong with him to keep him away. Of course, "men are
stupid".
We can create new,
positive beliefs about ourselves. Just reverse the belief you want to change and
say it to yourself over and
over again, using all your enthusiasm and excitement. Instead of "I'm
a failure" use "I'm successful", instead of "I'm not
good enough" use "I'm great".
These four topics,
Thoughts, Feelings, Choices and Beliefs, are areas where you can really
shift your ability to live life of joyful creativity.
Watch your thoughts -
keep them positive.
Give your feelings space.
Feelings are okay. They add flavor to the soup of life.
Get used to making
choices - take a chance. We all make mistakes and we can all respond to the
results. Look at your beliefs. Are they unquestionable facts?
Or might it be useful to shift some of them?