The following core concepts are the foundation for creating deep loving family connections.

You are linked with your children for a reason.  You’ve somehow committed to spending your time on this earth together.  Each day provides an opportunity to nurture the souls of those you love.  It is possible. Your kids are never too young or too sophisticated to begin embracing the core concepts.  No matter what your family might look like—and the Los Angeles Times recently came out with a survey that categorized over 28 different types of moms in America today—you can begin now forging a deeper connection.

Yes, we are busy, but by choosing to embrace the 7 core concepts, our lives will become more balanced. 

7 Core Concepts

Tolerance: let the little things go. You won’t remember the weeds in the front yard ten years from now, but you might recall your nine-year-old’s laughter as you taught her to throw a Frisbee—and she will too. Tolerance is also understanding that those we love might have different pictures in their minds of how events should play out. 

Time Together: is what it’s all about. Get creative and harvest more of it for your family. Plan special time, grab an occasional moment, turn routine events into family participation, share your hobbies, take part in your child’s interests.

Trial and Error: never give up, continue to try new approaches for a deeper connection with your kids and partner. Adjust to your child’s changing age and interests.

Take it out into the World: practice compassion in action as a family.

Teach Less, Listen More: honor each other’s viewpoints and dreams—learn from your kids.

Tools for Living: begin creating your family’s unique toolbox of beliefs. Be specific about what beliefs and values make it into that box, why they are there, and how your family can put them to use.

Total Love: you can’t go wrong when you love deeply. Never assume that your family knows how much you love them—show them often. 

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Who is Mimi Doe? Ladies Home Journal called Mimi Doe "a parenting guru" and she has appeared on Oprah. She holds a Master's Degree in Education from Harvard. Mimi is the author of the just released, Busy but Balanced: Practical and Inspirational Ways to Create a Calmer, Closer Family,  (St. Martins Press) and 10 Principles for Spiritual Parenting (Harper Collins) which won a coveted Parents' Choice Seal of Approval and was a finalist in the Books for a Better Life Award. Mimi's radio segment, Busy but Balanced Tip of the Week, airs on Parent Talk, a nationally syndicated program.