All
Hypnosis is Self Hypnosis
by Lia Maria Salciccia
Hypnosis and hypnotherapy have the
unfortunate reputation as being forms of mind control. This is partly due
to the history of modern hypnosis, which began with a man named Anton
Mesmer, who moved magnets through people's energy fields and achieved
great success in healing people of all sorts of maladies. Mesmer, who went
from being one of the most celebrated figures of Paris to being an
outcast. He was investigated by a panel of Scientists and Academics who
decreed his animal magnetism theory to be bogus. He died poor and ruined.
Investigations into Mesmer concluded that
people were being healed by his odd therapies, but it was not because of
his manipulation of their "animal magnetism" but in the belief
of the patients that they were being healed. From this point, hypnosis and
the subsequent field of hypnotherapy evolved slowly from a practice that
rested on the power to change mental states by the hypnotist to a practice
of changing from within that rested on the abilities of the hypnotized to
utilize the suggestions being given to him or her while in a state of
trance.
Along with the other modern misconceptions
of hypnosis is that the average hypnotic subject is a gullible,
unquestioning fool looking for someone to control his or her mind.
Actually, both from research of others' work and experience from my own,
I'd have to say that the best hypnotic subject is intelligent,
imaginative, and self-aware. Furthermore, these people have far more
success in making permanent transformations in themselves, from quitting
smoking and losing weight ,to releasing deep anger and sadness, to
utilizing past life information to take positive actions in this life.
This is because all hypnosis is
self-hypnosis. You see, when you come into my office for hypnotherapy,
after filling out an intake form that gives me some information on how you
learn, what kind of problem you're here to tackle, and the types of
visual, audio and kinesthetic imagery you best relate to, I sit you down
and explain how hypnosis works. I explain that for the purposes of this
therapy we can conceptualize our brain as existing in two parts: the
conscious and subconscious mind. The conscious mind regulates decision
making, linear processing of information, and direct perception through
the five senses. The subconscious mind regulates memory, imagination,
dreaming, non-linear thinking, instinct, and it relays information back to
the conscious (ever had an "aha!" moment?) They are separated by
what is called the critical factor, which, in short, allows you to tell
the difference between imagination and reality. The critical factor is
important, it is the part of you that allows yourself to remember that you
are indeed attending a college history lecture and not in fact zooming
around in a spaceship with the cute person you have a crush on. But it's
not always right. It is that irritating "internal censor" that
artists talk about all the time-the voice that says, "you can't
possibly do that. You aren't good enough."
In the hypnotherapy session we proceed to
banish the critical factor by taking you through step after step designed
to relax you very deeply. This does a lot of positive things. First and
foremost, it makes the internal censor quiet down, so that your
subconscious can engage in accepting all sorts of positive realities, like
a reality where you are a non smoker, your ideal weight, and free of deep
anger and sadness. Plus, it allows you to experience these realities as if
they were actually happening, because your subconscious mind can't tell
the difference between objective reality and a vivid imagining. The
critical factor, the one that would be able to tell you that you are in
fact sitting in a chair in some woman's office, would be quieted by the
steps leading you to deep relaxation.
These steps are most likely not new to you.
They may include but are not exclusively counting down backwards,
imagining yourself on a beach with warm sun on your body, breathing
deeply, and relaxing your body, muscle by muscle. In short, they are
employed by many wholistic practitioners and therapists and teachers of
meditation. And the state you end up in is similar to the states reached
by meditation, deep artistic or work-related concentration, being in the
athletic "zone" or any time you are focused and relaxed at the
same time.
And the truth is, you are more in control
than me. You must agree to sit in that chair, you must allow yourself to
visualize the things I suggest, you must allow yourself to relax. If you
aren't going to do this, you may as well go home. And a bigger truth of
all this is; not only is all hypnosis self hypnosis, but all healing is
self healing. Even in medical situations, we can keep ourselves from
healing if there is some hidden payoff. You can waste years and years of
psychotherapy if you are not interested in healing, ready to examine
yourself and then take action, and willing to trust first and foremost
your relationship with yourself and then your relationship with the
therapist and the exercises he or she has chosen to do with you in order
that you may know thyself and change.
The funny thing about the myths that
surround the field of hypnotherapy is this: we are constantly receiving
impressions into our subconscious that affect our beliefs and behaviors. A
hypnotherapist is not the only trance induction expert out there; far from
it, the TV producer, trusted parent, advertiser, writer, used car
salesman, politician, and girl scout selling cookies all know how to
expertly catch our attention, put us into a trance, and get us to behave
how they want us to. All these people and more successfully program our
minds every day. The difference between this kind of programming and the
kind you will receive in my or another hypnotists' office is that with me
you are in control of your programming. You come in, explain yourself,
your beliefs and your problem, you decide what beliefs and habits you'd
prefer to have, and then we work together to put you into trance and
suggest these new beliefs and behaviors to your subconscious mind. Your
ability to accept these suggestions (which come in many forms, from energy
work, to color therapy, to visualizations, to straight verbal suggestions)
is directly proportional to your desire to change and your belief that it
will work. Anybody who says that hypnosis and therapy in general is
"all in your mind" is right. But you've got to be willing to
dust off your mind and use it.
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Lia M. Salciccia and Jason Newcomb operate Center of Changes. They are
located at 32 Powdermill Road, Maynard MA and can be reached at 978 266
1795 and on the web at www.divineinfidel.com,
and by email at liamaria@mindspring.com.
Lia and Jason certified clinical
hypnotherapists, practicing a blend of holistic, Ericksonian-style,
clinical and metaphysical hypnosis, as well as Neuro-Linguistic
Programming for virtually all your needs. Both are members of the
American Board of Hypnotherapy and the National Association of Counselors
and Therapists. They work to assist clients to uncover patterns of
emotional blockage and habitual tensions that can be released quickly and
permanently, freeing clients from destructive habits and behaviors. They
believe that every human being has limitless possibilities and that by
unlocking the latent power in our own minds, we can access transformation
in every part of our lives. They are devoted to helping individuals and
groups, in a manner consistent with their own belief systems, to become
the absolute most that they can. "We want to see everyone live life
as fully and joyfully as they can imagine, and belief that nothing is
impossible. "