Game Of Life & Death
by Asoka Selvarajah
It is often said in spiritual teachings
that the world is an illusion, suffering is unreal, and that Good and Evil
are dualistic fantasies. Doubtless, this is all well and good. Yet, how do
we reconcile this with the fact that all of this seems very real indeed to
the vast majority of us?
As I pondered this one day, an interesting
metaphor came to my mind that might well go some way towards illustrating
Imagine a boy playing a computer game (I am using a boy as an example
because it IS mostly boys who play these games.) This is not just any old
computer game. This is one of those huge "virtual reality"
fantasy role-playing environments that have been created on the internet.
In this strange virtual landscape, our hero wanders around exploring
mountains and caves, fighting dragons and trolls, and meeting and talking
to other players.
The latter are, of course, also all costumed up in their respective roles.
Hence, although in real life, our lad may be still at school or working on
a building site, in this world he can be Sir Galahad, Luke Skywalker (from
Star Wars), or anyone else he chooses. Indeed, he could even take on a
female persona, if he chose to do so.
As our friend plays in this virtual world, we begin to observe a change
occurring. It begins to get a grip on him. He really begins to "get
into it". Now, he's spending hours every night wandering around in
this fantasy. It's so fascinating, and there's so much to do and see. As
we watch, he begins to spend less and less time away from the computer
screen. Finally, it gets to the point where he is there 24 hours a day.
His mum comes by to give him food and drink, but he gulps them down
without even noticing, so immersed is he in his interactive fantasy.
Now, we may imagine that he begins to develop a moral framework about this
game. When he sees other fantasy characters getting "killed" in
the game, he judges this as wrong and evil, and grieves over the suffering
that they underwent. In a sense, they DID suffer since they are just as
hooked on this fantasy world as he is. However, in reality, the other
players are all just sitting alive and well in their bedrooms, also glued
to their computer screens. Hence, there was no suffering in actuality;
only to the fantasy character they had identified totally with.
The boy regards his own fantasy body as real, and hence when he is
attacked by another player, he even "suffers" as his
"body" dies in the game. However, nothing has really been
destroyed: only something that never really existed in the first place
outside the virtual realm. We all know he can just reincarnate right back
into the game, and WILL do so, such is his desire to get back into play.
Maybe he lost a few points, or some of the weapons he gained last time
round have disappeared, but he can just carry right on from where he left
Do you see how this relates to the dilemma
of the world, of suffering, and of Good and Evil? We believe in all of
these things so totally because of our total identification with our
physical bodies and the world which we inhabit. It is only because we
identify so completely with the material world, and believe this is all
there is, that we are haunted by all these notions. Yet, if we could
awaken to the fact that reality is far more than this, and WE are far more
than the limited beings we mistake ourselves for, then our notions will
become to us as absurd as the boy trapped in the game.
A funny thing sometimes happens (extremely rarely) in this game world.
Once in a while, a player "wakes up" to who he/she really is.
She realizes she is NOT the role she has been playing lifetime after
lifetime in the game. Rather, she is a person in a whole other universe,
staring at a computer screen and wrestling frantically with a joystick.
She also realizes that she is NOT bound by the limited rules of the game
at all. She can simply walk away, and those rules hold no power over her
whatsoever. And she does walk away, never to return to the illusory trap
of that fantasy world again. She knows now that none of it was real; the
fantasy dramas, the wars, the killing, and all the mental anguish. It was
just a game, although it seemed so real at the time. Although she died a
million painful deaths (or so it seemed at the time), none of it touched
her true essence. She didn't really kill anyone, and nobody really killed
her. It just seemed that way at the time.
To those who remain, it seems as if she just "vanished". Some
say she attained what they call "Nirvana", and ceased to exist.
But that isn't really true: she just found out who she REALLY is, and
disappeared into realms beyond the game that they, still bound to it, can
never conceive or imagine.
Sometimes, such a person chooses to
re-enter the game, but this time remaining fully aware, undeceived by the
illusions of the fantasy world. She does so unselfishly, with the motive
of rescuing others still trapped within the illusion. She tells them that
this world that seems so real is nothing more than an illusion, that what
they perceive as suffering is not real at all, and that what they perceive
to be Good and Evil is likewise nonsensical, when viewed from a higher
Most of the players laugh at her. These ideas are so ridiculous. They ask
her to describe this "Enlightenment" she claims to have. But she
cannot, because THEY cannot conceive of anything outside of the game world
in which their senses are totally immersed. So, because she cannot relate
it to the world they know and understand, they conclude it is extinction
or non-existence. Some of them ask her to give them this enlightenment, by
touching them on the shoulder, or by physically taking them there. But she
says she cannot do that. Each person has to realize it for him or herself.
Each person must awaken from the illusion alone. She cannot do it for
them, although she can show them the quickest way to do it.
Hopefully, this metaphor will have helped you to gain some insight into
why spiritual teachings say the things they do about our everyday
experience. It can help you to think of this world as a sort of virtual
reality game. In essence, that is what it is! It would be false to say
that it does not exist in ANY sense, but it IS true to say that it is
nothing like the way it seems, and it is definitely not all that there is.
If you can visualize the physical world as only the very tip of a vast
iceberg that constitutes reality, you will be far less inclined to take it
all so seriously: least of all your "bit part" in it.
Oh, by the way, in the game metaphor, we were assuming that these were all
separate individuals playing the game in different locations. That is only
partly true. You see, at a still higher level, there is actually only ONE
player who is role-playing all THOSE people sitting at their computer
screens, immersed in their own fantasy world.
But that is a whole other game!...
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